HOWARD JONES - LOOK MAMA

Released:  April 12, 1985

Charted:  UK: #10 

“Look Mama,” from 1985 album “Dream into Action”, was released as the album’s second single and reached #10 on the UK Singles Chart. While it wasn’t issued as a single in the US, a unique mix appeared on the US-only remix album “Action Replay”. The song opens with a sample of dialogue from the 1974 film Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore.

The song delves into the universal struggle for independence and individuality in the face of parental expectations. The lyrics portray a heartfelt yet assertive dialogue between a child and their overprotective mother, as the protagonist expresses love and respect for their parent while urging for personal freedom.

A key line, “Honey, I think Audrey’s a little mature for you,” reveals the mother’s concern about the protagonist’s choices, reflecting her protective nature. However, the protagonist’s response—defending Audrey as “nice” rather than “mature”—illustrates their desire to make their own judgments and decisions. The recurring refrain, “Look mama I love you, but you gotta let me live my life,” encapsulates the song’s core message. It conveys both affection and a plea for space, as the protagonist insists on being allowed to navigate their own path.

Other lines, such as “Don’t try to stick your rules on me” and “I wasn’t born as a carbon copy,” underscore a longing for self-expression and the right to define their own identity. While recognizing the mother’s wisdom, the protagonist seeks to learn and grow through personal experiences, asserting their individuality against the pressures of conformity.